November 15, 2018 was a monumental day for our family. It was a highly anticipated moment and one we all were anxious and excited for. Adopting my two oldest is an event I will hold tightly to and forever cherish.

There were nerves leading up to the court hearing but once inside the court room, personally, I felt at ease.

The lawyer briefed us on what to expect and how to answer any potential questions from the judge.

Our case was an easy one because leading up to the decision, my wife (Damaris) and I did all the hard work by being present, providing, caring and unconditionally loving our children.

As the lawyer called the witnesses to the stand – Damaris and I – he built the case on why we should have the judge rule in our favor.

After stating all evidence, the judge then had the opportunity to ask additional questions and seek more evidence. The judge declined any further questions because he heard all that was needed.

With friends – who are family – seated behind we awaited the judge’s decision. He ruled on my behalf and granted full adoption. Tears of joy filled our eyes as the decision was made. We won our case and it was now sealed.

As the judge read his statement, he finished with five words – “Now, go enjoy your life.”

A statement I still replay in my head and one I feel like I’ll never forge – a simple, yet profound statement.

I can’t help but to see a life lesson through all this.

If your life – to this point – was on trial, how would the judge rule?

For Christians, would God need further evidence or have more questions as you stated your case just like the lawyer did for us? Would your witnesses build or break your case?

For non-believers, how would you fare? Could you walk into life’s court confidently knowing you’ve done everything needed to win the case against you? When the decision is made, have you reached for the stars and are you living your full potential?

When your “court date” comes, there is no getting ready because what has already happened is all evidence. It can either be for you or be used against you.

As I reflect over the adoption, I sit on cloud 9 because we waited so long for this to happen and it is done. I hear the judge’s simple words – “Now, go enjoy your life”.

Yes, sir, we will.

It’s time to give more, do more, and be more.